Demand Avoidance

Demand avoidance is a common characteristic often seen in children with autism spectrum condition (ASC), where they may show resistance or distress in response to requests or expectations, even if those demands are simple or routine. This behaviour can be linked to an anxiety-driven need to maintain control over their environment, leading to a heightened sense of pressure when faced with tasks or activities they find overwhelming. Understanding demand avoidance is crucial for autism support, as it allows caregivers, educators, and therapists to adopt strategies that reduce stress and encourage cooperation. Our team of clinical professionals here at London Autism Service provide systemic support by working closely with families, schools, and other caregivers to develop tailored strategies that reduce anxiety and increase participation. Support often involves creating a more flexible, supportive environment, offering choices, and using positive reinforcement to help the child feel more in control and less anxious. Through personalised interventions and ongoing communication, we empower individuals with ASC to develop coping strategies that help manage demand avoidance, while fostering a sense of accomplishment and engagement.